If you’re wondering how to win their heart, astrology can help! Each astrological sign has an element: earth, air, fire and water, and these elements can tell you a lot about someone’s love language!
Love languages are the different ways we communicate in relationships, the things we need and the ways in which we show our devotion.
There are 5 love languages: words of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts, quality time and acts of service.
Each of these love languages matches with an astrological element, so using this system can help you to understand your partner or date a little better!
Use your/their Sun sign, Moon or Venus for best results.
Earth: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn
Physical Touch & Receiving Gifts:
Earth signs are very connected to the material world and tend to be very sensual souls. They crave touch and even a brush on the arm or holding a hand can light them up inside, however, you might not always know how they feel about you as earth signs tend to be quite reserved with their feelings and affections.
They won’t always tell you how they feel but you can see it in their body language. Once you’ve won their heart though, they’re the best gift givers around and will expect the same thoughtfulness from you. It’s not so much about the cost, but rather the thought you’ve put into it. They’ll reward you with a surprising amount of physical passion!
Air: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
Words of Affirmation:
Being air signs, words of affirmation are most important to these signs, so be aware of what you say to them. A great conversation is what they crave the most and if you can be witty, charming and funny, you’ll definitely be in.
Compliments will take you far but make sure they’re genuine as these air signs are smart, they’ll be able to tell if you’re being insincere and in fact, honesty and fairness is number one with these guys. Take them for granted, lie or speak badly to them and they’ll take it very seriously.
Because everything they do is analysed by the mind first, you might find them unemotional, but this is not the case, they just express themselves through words and can find it difficult to engage the heart over brain. Listen and you’ll know.
Fire: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
A fire sign is all about the experiences in life, in fact, most fire signs would prefer a fun day out over a fancy gift or dinner date so plan something exciting for you to do together if you want to make them happy.
Quality time means you want to experience the world with them so it should be something you both enjoy. Travelling, hobbies or activities together help you bond and enable the fire sign to get to know you as they can be very protective over their deeper feelings and sense of freedom.
If you can’t do something together, telling a great story about your latest adventure or making them laugh is just as good. Keep them on their toes by not being too emotional in the beginning, they like to keep it light and fun at first, but later you’ll surely feel their passion and loyalty.
Water: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
Acts of Service:
Water signs like to do things for those they love, so their love language is acts of service. A water sign will go to the ends of the earth for the one they love, so they’ll expect similar from you.
Helping them with their work, making them food, even bringing them a cup of tea will bring a smile to your water sign’s face.
It’s a common misconception that a water sign is overly emotional, actually they can be very private about their feelings, even when in a committed relationship, but if you look to their actions, a water sign in love will be doing all sorts of things for you – cooking, cleaning, listening, helping, because that’s how they show their affection the most.
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Ellie Rose x